UK Media – Stop Clinging to the Sussex Wave


The British Royal Family and its media are acting exactly like an ex spouse who is angry that their victim has escaped from their abusive behaviour. The abusers doubled down on the abuse, as a way of trying to give the impression that they still had control over the actions of Harry and Meghan. Since Harry and Meghan have managed to leave that perceived gilded prison, there has been an increasing sinister nature to the public attacks on the couple, Meghan in particular, all done via UK media partners.  The risks on their lives and that of their child and now an unborn child have increased enormously.  There is no sign of the BRF standing down from these attacks, and there still seems to be some kind of strange belief that if harm comes to Meghan and children, in whatever form, then the marriage would end, and Harry would somehow return to the UK and forget about all the abuse dished out to him and his family.

At this point, in theory Harry would be alone, and without a purposeful role other than to be a Whipping Boy for William.  Only people with an evil mindset could ever possibly believe that Harry would return to be the Royal slave – under any circumstances.  I have come to the conclusion that the BRF are cold , and the security of a Monarchy for decades to come is the only thing that matters.  The end justifies the means.  True Cult Like behaviour.

The fact of the matter is, the Sussexes have escaped the Royal Plantation, and are doing very well indeed in providing for their family, including paying for their own security in the USA.  This follows Prince Charles’ decision to withdraw security for the Sussexes, without warning, months before the official date agreed by the Queen, for the couple to step back from being senior working Royals. RF then gave away the location where the Sussexes were staying in Canada, and did the same thing again when they first moved to the USA.  Despite that betrayal by his family, the Sussexes did not fall at the barriers clearly placed in their way.  The Archewell Foundation has been running for over 12 months now and is supporting an increasing range of sustainable projects and charities.  The Sussexes have their own home, and it is clear that they will never reside in the UK again.  Frogmore Cottage has been paid back in full, and rent has been paid in advance for a considerable period.  The Sussexes owe no one, and they do not cost the UK taxpayer anything at all.  The couple are independent and self financing.

Why then, are the family intent on ruining this couple?  The abuse behind Palace walls needs to be made public.  All we do know is that Meghan felt suicidal whilst pregnant with Archie, and sought help from the Royal HR team, but was refused assistance, on the basis that she was not considered an employee and it would also look bad on the RF that a member of the said family was in need of mental health assistance.  I think the real reason was that it would shine a light on not only the UK media who were acting on behalf of the Royal family anyway, but also the treatment by the Royal family itself towards Meghan.  We all now know that the RF made no financial provision for Meghan when she married into the family.  In reality she was treated like the slave of the Royal Family.

So to drive someone to the point where they wanted to commit suicide, I fail to see how they believe that Harry could put all that to one side, and return to the UK on his own (whether his wife was alive or not) and be alright with all the abuse that had gone on, and somehow become a compliant slave to help his brother and wife, who were one of the key players in the abuse that was dished out to the Sussex family. No mention of the Sussex children, where there are already plans afoot to introduce new laws that will prevent the Sussex children from having Titles and having the option to walk away if they chose to do so at 18 years of age; the same right given to all the other Royal children.  Note all other children in the Royal Family, even those whose parents are not considered senior or high in the Line of Succession, have titles, unless the parents decided otherwise.  All of those Royals live in tax funded homes, and properties are all worth more than the former servants shack allocated to H&M, and for which the couple had to repay all the renovation costs – for a property they did not own. In reality, only the adult and the children of colour in the RF were or are scheduled to be removed from Royal documentation. Meghan was removed from Archie’s birth certificate without permission of the parents.  It appears that they were notified but not consulted about such amendments. Only Meghan’s Title remains.  Harry’s name and Title is still on the Birth Certificate.  Every other child born within the Royal family have both parents name on the birth certificate.  Only the people of colour have been omitted.  No name.  Just like slaves from the plantation.  No identity, just a title, which could mean anyone in the future when history books are read for information.

The dehuminisation of people of colour from the white Royal bloodline is a common trait of white supremacists throughout history.  Typical behaviour of a racist Klan.  Treat them like slaves who have no rights.  If someone did that outside the Royal family in the UK, it would be against the law.  With the Government in place in the UK at the moment, and for the foreseeable future, that situation will not change.  This is the Govt who is behind the recent report on racism in the UK, which has declared that it is role model country for other mainly white populated countries in the world, to operate in terms of their ethnic minorities.  The whole report is deeply offensive and so far from truth and accuracy it is an affront to common decency and ensures that the future is far from bright for people of colour in the UK.

It is time to highlight what the abusers have been doing, and to bring it out into the light.  It is time to see the huge machinery of resources that has been put in place to administer this level of ongoing cruelty to members who wished to move away from the control of the UK BRF.  It is time to bring it to the seats of International Law Makers and Courts, and to right the many wrongs that have been done to this couple, and to ensure that it never happens again to anyone in a similar position.  If individuals outside of the RF bubble had done any of these things to other members of the family, there would have been a multitude of professional organisations and law enforcement, child protection agencies and the like, beating down the door.  Just because it is happening behind gilded gates, should not make it admissible.  Abuse is abuse.  Child abuse is child abuse.  Mental health is mental health.  None of these things are any less important because of the location of the abuse and no abuser should be allowed to continue their activities, because of where they live, and that they are related to the Monarch.  This is 2021.  We know better than that, or at least lawmakers should, and as the last guardian of legal process, international law establishments, should not stand by and ignore victims of abuse, just because the abusers are related to the Monarch, and the premises in which the abuse takes place, is off limits to normal law enforcement.

It is important to reiterate here that the abuse in respect of the Sussexes, and in particular Meghan, is still happening, even though the Sussexes no longer reside in the UK – forced out in order to protect life and limb because of the continual abusive actions taken by the media authorised by the BRF. I really need to know how, under International Law, an American citizen was abused over a four year period in the UK and no one questioned the activity.  Abused to the point that suicidal ideation followed as a direct result of the years long campaign to destroy Meghan in any way possible, in order that she would be removed from the equation, by any means, and that Harry would be controlled again and return the BRF positive image with no spotlight on their diminishing purpose in a modern society. The BRF consider themselves advocates of many things, including acting as token representatives of various Mental Health initiatives.  It is beyond offensive as to how dangerous that role is when we consider the actual truth of the matter.  The BRF are not advocates of anything but self preservation of the Monarchy, and if that means appearing to care about various causes, and showing up now and then to smile and wave and show concerned expressions when speaking to the staff of these organisations, or smiling on camera via Zoom sessions – they will do it a few times a year to a few organisations.  These visits or zoom calls are then listed in Royal records as “work”.  An hour or two here or there.

The reality is that Meghan (an American citizen) was abused in a variety of ways, on UK soil for over 3 years and it continued in Canada and continues now that she is home in California.  When the abuse is carried out daily by uk media, the propaganda arm of the British Royal Family, victims have the right to expect protection under the law. Whilst Meghan was being ill treated behind palace gates by a UK Monarchy who presides over UK subjects; a Monarchy who made it clear Meghan was not family, no financial provision made for her upon marriage.  Paid all of her own expenses.  Not an employee either, so not entitled to health care or shown any concern  despite knowing that Meghan was suicidal) If UK law is under pressure to turn a blind eye, then the independence of international law should be visibly taking the reins. By their own admission, the BRF did not give Meghan a designation, even her name was removed from her child’s birth certificate. Like so many things relating to history of the UK Monarchy, rewriting history is not new to them, but in this day and age, it should not be allowed.  Legal entities in the UK seem reluctant to take action, or in fact shown any concern, of any abuse that has been going on for decades (if not longer) to children and adults behind palace walls. Now we have an American citizen who was psychologically shackled by UK Royalty and its tabloid press under their instruction, and the tentacles of abusive actions have continued on Canadian and then now on USA soil.  Law makers and protection agencies turned a blind eye in the UK for 4 years, and I have yet to understand how an American citizen can be held like a prisoner in her residence in the UK, with all her personal documentation held by the HR team for the BRF and told to be 50% of herself and make herself less visible.  Cut off from friends and needing permission to do things.  There is no law in the UK that HR needs to hold your passport, driving licence, credit cards and keys, which is what the BRF did to Meghan.  HR only needs to see the originals and photocopy said documents such as Passport and Driving Licence, and then officially stamp the copies that the “originals have been seen”.  No regulation requires any organisation to hold on to the originals.  It is also illegal to alter a Birth Certificate, whether or not the parents were informed.  Meghan is the only POC in the BRF and the only one to have her name removed from her child’s birth certificate, and with only the Title on this important document.

I really would like to know how a USA citizen is allowed to be a victim of abuse in the UK and that it continues even though Meghan is back on home soil.  100+ of abusive articles are written in the UK press most days about the Sussexes, particularly about Meghan.  TV programmes have panels of non entities discussing the Sussexes in the most disparaging and cruel ways.  Again, I ask the legal experts here and in the USA, why is this allowed to go on?  Hatred attracts income, so it is clear why the evil souls who pursue such activities do what they do, but people have died in the UK due to behaviour of the UK media and many more are dealing with the aftermath of being on the receiving end of such treatment.

To the credit of the Sussexes, they are now building a new life, but I have no doubt there is so much trauma present and there has been no time to heal.  It has been fire fighting all the way, and the constant worry of risk to life.  Meghan was abused & harassed during her first pregnancy; the aim was to cause a miscarriage.  To hear in the Oprah interview that Meghan had suicidal thoughts during that pregnancy came as a shock but not a surprise when we recall the behaviour of UK tabloids during that period towards Meghan.  Two years plus of daily abuse at that point would have driven many others to that way of thinking way before that point in time.  It proves how strong Meghan is and how much she endured and yet the BRF and its press never relented. We are lucky to have Meghan and Archie here today. Harry knew he had to find a way to escape with his family for their safety and mental health.

When the news of the Sussexes miscarriage was announced in 2020, the venom continued. It was beyond disgusting.  There is a podcast discussing the role of UK media, the BRF and various hater groups out there who piled on the abuse during this period.  I will link the podcast on this new site in the Archive section for information. Be warned it is a very emotionally charged podcast.

I repeat, why has no legal action been taken against those responsible for abusive behaviour on a daily basis? Abusers who are UK citizens (in terms of the media and BRF) and UK & internationally based hate groups and individuals many with monetized accounts operating with borderline illegal activity and certainly inciting hatred. A prominent USA citizen has been the victim of various forms of abuse for over 4 years, and it is continuing on USA soil.  How is this allowed to happen?  When Princess Diana was abused and ultimately met her death, many UK citizens had their own ideas why the UK legal system did nothing about it.  Please USA, do not be the same.  Do not turn a blind eye to abuse.  Do not allow a situation like in USA Gymnastics to take 30 years to begin court proceedings against two individuals; many more are still working with children at risk. Do not allow the Sussex family to continue to live in fear for their lives or their mental health. A new baby is due very shortly, and the interest from UK haters will be feral.  I implore you to do something. Mental health does not discriminate between societal stratas of income.  The recent documentary series produced by Harry and Oprah is powerful, and I am sure will be an educational aid for years to come, as well as a recipient of many awards I am sure. There have to be alternatives to achieve peace and tranquillity other than a heart no longer beating.

The Sussexes, like all citizens deserve protection under the law.  The UK is ignoring their legal obligations because Harry married a person of colour, and he dared to walk away from the Royal  Plantation to protect his family, and to be able to develop a range of sustainable humanitarian projects without the couple having to dim their light in order to allow mediocre incompetent self serving people to shine.  The world does not want to see another Princess Diana incident.

In March 2021 there was breaking news which indicated proof of collusion between members of the uk media and the Royal family.  We have known that the papers have been publishing hate inciting articles, around 100+ articles a day! Which is one form of abuse in itself.  One TV presenter has had a hateful vendetta against Meghan since 2017, and it reached new depths post the Sussex wedding in May 2018.  It was a daily onslaught.  Included interviewing various members of the paternal side of Meghan’s family, many of whom Meghan had not seen in over a decade.  The worst and most prominent individual in those attacks and tv interviews with the said presenter, was Meghan’s father. There was an incident towards the end of March 2021 where this Presenter walked off set from his daily morning tv programme following an altercation with another presenter on the show.  The senior Presenter has since left the employ of the tv network concerned, following a barrage of complaints about this man’s tirade relating to Meghan’s interview with Oprah talking about her suicidal thoughts and the state of her mental health. In an interview some days later, this same presenter referred to the BRF and said that he had received recent messages from members of the RF, thanking him for standing up to the Sussexes.  Proves collusion with the BRF (the BRF have not denied it) and that his daily tirade against Meghan was allowed to continue because it was sanctioned by the BRF.  Any other presenter would have been told to cool it long before March, and if that presenter was a POC, they would have been fired within weeks of the such behaviour 4 years ago.

The same presenter was given a two page spread in a tabloid which he writes for, and who was the tabloid that Meghan won her historical recent court case; explains why this same tabloid gave him a platform to make threats towards Meghan, telling her that he is not finished yet, and with a large photo of him pointing his finger.  The level of harassment and stalking he does regarding Meghan is dangerous and way off the scale now.  Since he became unemployed from his TV role, the man appears unhinged, and worryingly he has a home in the USA and has residency in California as well as the UK.

I came across a thread on a social media platform from an academic Dr Claire Hardaker PhD, who did a study on the number of articles written by this said Presenter in the last year. Thank you Dr Hardaker for granting permission to use these statistics in the podcast. Dr Hardaker looked at 12 months of headlines written by said presenter.  There were 84 in total.  Researching all the words used statistically, the presenters Christian and surname was 3rd and 4th on the list.  Clearly loves talking about himself. Coming in at 9th, 23rd and 32nd was Trump, Biden and President.  The presenter’s interest in US politics is well documented.  In 26th and 35th place were Harry and Meghan.  In fact, both appear in 17 headlines in total.  That is one headline, every 3 weeks for a year, and one in every five dedicated to writing something about one or both.

The words and concepts used in the headlines about Meghan are as follows:- brats, brazen, cynical, damage, deluded, diatribe, disgraceful, disowned, disregard, dump, garbage, hate, hypocrite, hypocrites, hypocritical (x2), narcissism, narcissistic, nauseating, parody, preach, propaganda. Race-baiting, tone-deaf, victimhood, victims, virtue-signalling, whiny, woke (x3) wrecked.  Dr Claire stated “pretty sure that there is a project in here about abuse and harassment.”

The Sussexes have left the UK, just like UK media and fellow haters claimed they wanted. Costs of the Sussexes were always quoted as the main reason for their gripes but it was a smokescreen.  All costs and rent paid in advance for years. They wanted Meghan to leave and for Harry to stay behind, as a broken man, but being the foot soldier/poster boy or slave – whatever anyone wants to call it – for the Royal Family, Prince William in particular. That is what 2nd and subsequent Royal children in brought into the world to do, and they call it “duty” and are referred to in a derogatory way as “spares”.  Those children should never have any ambitions that outshine the heir to the throne.  Even Harry’s earned Title of Major was never allowed to be used, because it would have been above the rank achieved by his older brother. They underestimated Harry all his life and never expected him to walk away from the whole lot. All the tricks and barriers placed in front of the Sussexes in order to make them fall outside of palace gates, all failed, and now they are hugely successful, self financing and cost the UK taxpayer nothing.

The divorce from being a taxpayer Royal is now absolute.  The BRF through its media propaganda team  refuse to move on.  This is not the era like when Diana was treated so badly by the family and the media.  Social media exists now.  News travels fast and receipts exist. All of the sycophantic haters who thrive off hateful social media posts and activity should seek therapy and create a new life moving forward. Technology will soon seek you out and there will be consequences for the reckless posting on social media one day.

All that is required now is for USA and/or International Law makers to put an end to this continual abuse of an American citizen back on USA soil, and who is still being abused for clickbait income and revenge for escaping from the modern day slave plantation paid for by UK taxpayers.  A plantation where children and adults are abused with impunity; born into opulence does not protect anyone from abuse. A regime supported by a government which has questions to answer on many legal fronts, and a backdrop of the impact of Brexit on UK residents, particularly those for POC.

I will end this podcast with a reminder that Harry and Meghan never used any of the BRF medical team, or use the standard hospital team to give birth to Archie.  The medical team was not revealed due to fear of harassment by the press (uk media had personnel outside all of the likely venues for the birth trying to find any information possible).  We now know it was also fear of harm to mother or baby or both.  I am thankful that they are in the USA and I know that things will have been put in place to secure a safe delivery and peace and calm in the days surrounding the birth of baby girl Sussex, rather than the vigilante antics in the UK employed the last time.

BRF and media pals, your abused victims are now survivors.  The divorce you asked for is now absolute.  Time to move on and focus on the royal family members you all claimed were relevant.

Stop clinging to the Sussex waves of success.  It appears to the world at large that the UK having forced the family out of the country, and realised that the Sussexes have overcome every barrier the Monarchy placed in front of Harry and Meghan, and are now hugely successful.  The BRF are now becoming desperate to tie themselves to the couple in any way possible; no matter how tenuous.  It does not in any way make the UK look good. The behaviour moves between criticising everything the Sussexes do in a negative way, in an effort to sabotage their projects, and in the next breath when the positive reports are so good, stories appear in the press how they want to encourage the Sussexes back into the fold etc etc.  The latest performative action is to announce a huge (in courtiers heads at least) street party celebration in London to celebrate the number of years The Queen has reigned in England – due to take place in 12 months time.

It is all part of the usual distraction approach.  Every time a negative report comes out about the BRF, another story appears within hours which they hope the public will focus on, and comment on etc, instead of the negative story about any of the BRF. This follows on from a report in one of the more serious newspapers in the UK, that a document has come to light of the Royal family  refusing to employ people of colour or foreigners in office roles at any of their Palaces.  They would be considered for servant roles only. This stipulation was made in 1968.  Alongside this rule, the BRF ensured that it was written into UK law that they did not have to abide by Equality legislation.  The Royal family have made no comment since this article was published.  Supporters of the monarch keep repeating that was in the 60s, where most businesses did that.  What they are missing that practice still occurs today, and the family still do not need to abide by Equality legislation.  One cannot help but wonder why would anyone wish to be exempt from compliance with such laws, if everything was being done in accordance with the law.  It also means that for the few people who are employed in any role in the Palaces, they have no route of legal redress if there is a problem whilst they are employed there.  The employer in question is legally exempt from what the rest of the nation has to abide by.

It almost goes without saying, if the BRF did not want people in their offices, then it should come as a surprise that they did not want a POC in their family.  Hence the Meghan situation and also the conversations debating the shade of their unborn 1st child’s skin.

I hope many of UK media (Royal Reporters and TV Presenters) are held personally accountable in the courts for their actions and their words in articles against this couple.  Karma has no clock.

There is a also podcast available accompanying this blog post.


Ivy Barrow

2nd June 2021


NB Image Credit Bill Oxford